Cyber Empathy·Oct 10, 2023·55m·Episode #2

The 7 habits of highly empathetic people

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“Knowing and not doing is the same as not knowing.”

Join Sebastian Avarvarei and myself as we dive deep into the layers of self-development, cybersecurity, and the crucial blend of technical acumen with soft skills.

Sebastian, with his rich experience in security, sheds light on his evolution from proficient technical leader to becoming a deeply compassionate leader in the cybersecurity industry.

I can’t wait for you to discover his unique approach to leadership, the influence "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" had on his managerial style, and the power of practice in transforming knowledge into actionable wisdom.

From overcoming the fear of public speaking to leading with the heart, and the role of empathy in cybersecurity, this conversation overflows with inspiration for professional growth and personal development. We’ll also touch on the importance of being kind to ourselves, of acknowledging that it’s okay not to be okay, why practicing appreciative listening can be life-changing, and so much more.

Whether you're a seasoned expert or a newbie in cybersecurity, there's a nugget of wisdom for you in this conversation.

In this episode, you will learn:

How Sebastian discovered the power of speaking from the heart (6:40)
How Stephen Covey's book influenced Sebastian (11:10)
Be ready to learn at any moment (24:50)
Why we must be kind to ourselves (34:00)
The importance of time management in empathetic leadership (37:20)
The clarifying question that creates alignment (46:40)

Resources Mentioned:

Book: Stephen Covey - The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
Sebastian Avarvei at DefCamp 2022 - What if I told you that Security is here to help?
DefCamp website
Book: Ryan Holiday - Ego is the Enemy
Book: Douglas Stone, Sheila Heen - Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well
The Cyber Empathy Manifesto
Cyber Empathy. Episode #1 - Why I chose an empathetic approach to cybersecurity
About Sebastian's happy place
Appreciative Listening on Wikipedia
Situational Leadership Theory on Wikipedia

Connect with Sebastian:

Let's connect!

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“Knowing and not doing is the same as not knowing .” Join Sebastian Avarvarei and myself as we dive deep into the layers of self-development, cybersecurity, and the crucial blend of technical acumen with soft skills. Sebastian, with his rich experience in security, sheds light on his evolution from proficient technical leader to becoming a deeply compassionate leader in the cybersecurity industry. I can’t wait for you to discover his unique approach to leadership, the influence "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" had on his managerial style, and the power of practice in transforming knowledge into actionable wisdom. From overcoming the fear of public speaking to leading with the heart, and the role of empathy in cybersecurity, this conversation overflows with inspiration for professional growth and personal development. We’ll also touch on the importance of being kind to ourselves, of acknowledging that it’s okay not to be okay, why practicing appreciative listening can be life-changing, and so much more. Whether you're a seasoned expert or a newbie in cybersecurity, there's a nugget of wisdom for you in this conversation. In this episode, you will learn: How Sebastian discovered the power of speaking from the heart (6:40) How Stephen Covey's book influenced Sebastian (11:10) Be ready to learn at any moment (24:50) Why we must be kind to ourselves (34:00) The importance of time management in empathetic leadership (37:20) The clarifying question that creates alignment (46:40) Resources Mentioned: Book: Stephen Covey - The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Sebastian Avarvei at DefCamp 2022 - What if I told you that Security is here to help? DefCamp website Book: Ryan Holiday - Ego is the Enemy Book: Douglas Stone, Sheila Heen - Thanks for the Feedback : The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well The Cyber Empathy Manifesto Cyber Empathy. Episode #1 - Why I chose an empathetic approach to cybersecurity About Sebastian's happy place Appreciative Listening on Wikipedia Situational Leadership Theory on Wikipedia Connect with Sebastian: LinkedIn Twitter Let's connect! Website LinkedIn Twitter